Tambaya: Mene ne 'Jima'i'? Shin Babban Matsala ne a yau?
Amsa: An kiyasta kashi 39 cikin 100 na matasa a Amurka suna yin 'jima'i', inda masu amfani suke daukar hotuna masu ban sha'awa da kansu, kuma suna amfani dashi zuwa wasu wayoyin salula na mutane . Da farko dai 'yan mata matasa suna neman sha'awar yara maza, amma yanzu maza da mata sunyi daidai da ita, jima'i ba ta cin nasara ga duk abokai da' yan sanda ko alƙalai ba.
Wasu mutane suna ganin shi a matsayin matashi mai sauki, amma wasu lauyoyi sun juya shi a cikin wani felony.
A Arewacin Carolina, an yi matukar fitina da matasa domin cin zarafin batsa saboda rashin jima'i. Ƙasashe masu yawa a Amurka sun ƙaddara sababbin dokokin jima'i . Har ila yau, har ma da tsoratar da labarai: Jessica Logan ta Jihar Ohio ta kashe kanta saboda an yi ta ba'a game da sakonnin jima'i zuwa ga saurayi.
Shin Yin Jima'i ne kawai a Fadar Sa, ko Babban Matsala?
Hanya da aiki na raba rahotannin kai tsaye ba sabon bane. Yin musayar hotuna mara kyau tare da sauran matasa sun kasance ɓangare na matashi na shekaru masu yawa. Amma saboda karuwar wayar hannu da wayoyin salula, ya zama mai sauƙi kuma yana da sauri don tura hoto na sirri. Tun daga shekarar 2008, sakonnin jima'i sun zama sanannun mutane da yawa a Arewacin Amirka da Turai.
Matsalar matsalar jima'i ta ta'allaka ne a yadda ake sauƙaƙe sake sake watsa hotuna, zuwa gawar da kuma kunya na mai samo asali. Wani sakon gwaji wanda aka aika zuwa ga yarinya ko yarinya zai iya saukewa da sauri, kuma mai sukar zai iya zama abin dariya da ƙazantaccen lalata ga dukan makarantar.
Lokacin da hoton ya zama hoto mai kamala a kan layi, yana da wuya a cire lalacewar kuma ya tuna duk kofe.
A'a, jima'i ba wai kawai bane: wani zamani ne ya nuna nau'i na jariri, ya karu da ninba sau da yawa ta hanyar bidiyo. Dalilin ba shine matsala ba: yara zasu zama yara.
Yana da matatar da muke kusantar da sauƙin saƙo na zamani. Don haka kadan daga cikinmu sunyi godiya ga kyamarar kyamarar kyamara ta wayar tarho, amma watakila idan matasan da suka isa su shiga kan layi, to, balaga da karfin kansu zasu ci gaba.
Menene iyaye za suyi game da jima'i?
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